What can we do for our teens?
Every day there is news about the continued illicit drug problem in the world. We must confront the issue from the side of those who produce and sell such drugs, as well as to address the causes for the demand to use them. I am particularly concerned about teenagers and young adults. We love them, and we want to keep them safe even as we face the limits of our abilities. Fentanyl is deadly in very small amounts. Sometimes marijuana is tainted with fentanyl. Very Dangerous! Heroin is one of the most addictive drugs. Some users become addicted after the first use. Methamphetamine is destroying lives. We also know of the damage of long-term alcohol abuse. Most people know someone who is an alcoholic or who lives with one.
So, what can we do for our teens? PAY ATTENTION! Here are some factors to look at as you evaluate a teen’s behaviors and attitudes, not just concerning drug use, but also self-destructive or suicidal tendencies. School life. Are they in conflict with staff? Are their grades dropping? Do they clash with other students and/or with members of staff? Family life. Is your teen rebellious? Do they argue often with their parents and/or siblings? Do they go missing for periods of time? The law and crime. Is your teen a thief? Do you notice money missing from your purse or wallet? Do you suspect your teen might be involved in shoplifting or other crimes? Community. Is your teen running around with the wrong crowd? Do you know where your teen is, especially at night? Aggressive behavior. Is your teen prone to lose their cool beyond what might be considered normal? Depression. Is your teen spending long periods of time alone perhaps in their room? Have they been medically examined for depression? Sexuality. Is your teen sexually active? Do you know their partner or partners? Are they sexually ignorant and likely to be part of an unexpected pregnancy? Truthfulness. Have you caught out your teen telling lies? Have you tried to talk calmly with your teen but hit a brick wall? Are they unwilling to give details of where they have been or with whom? Illegal Substances. Is your teen involved with drugs and/or alcohol? Does their behavior suggest they are involved with drugs? Self-belief. Does your teen seem to lack confidence? Have they abandoned the things which once took pride of place in their life? (The above bold categories have been edited and taken from “At Risk Youth Programs,” an online educational hub for parents of youth aged between 12-17 https://atriskyouthprograms.com/)
May we share God’s grace with vulnerable teens and young adults!
Peace, Fr. Andy